The daughter of a Hong Kong tycoon who offered millions to any man who would marry her has written an open letter urging him to accept she is a lesbian.
Gigi Chao says Cecil Chao should accept her partner and “treat her like a normal, dignified human being”.
Ms Chao, 33, who married her long-term partner Sean Eav in France in 2012, also emphasised: “There are plenty of good men, they are just not for me.”
Mr Chao last week reportedly offered to double his 2012 offer of $65m (£40m).
Hong Kong does not recognise same-sex unions, although homosexuality was decriminalised in 1991.
Mr Chao, a property and shipping tycoon who himself has never married, said that his daughter needed a “good husband”.
He said at the time that his monetary offer for any man to woo his daughter had generated many replies from potential suitors.
The letter by Ms Chao, a socialite and businesswoman, was published in at least two Hong Kong newspapers, including the South China Morning Post newspaper on Tuesday.
In it she said she was sorry that people had been saying “insensitive things” about her father.
“The truth is, they don’t understand that I will always forgive you for thinking the way you do, because I know you think you are acting in my best interests,” she said.
“As your daughter, I would want nothing more than to make you happy. But in terms of relationships, your expectations of me and the reality of who I am, are not coherent.”
She added that she did not expect her father and her partner “to be best of friends”. But she said “it would mean the world to me if you could just not be so terrified of her, and treat her like a normal, dignified human being”.
“I’m sorry to mislead you to think I was only in a lesbian relationship because there was a shortage of good, suitable men in Hong Kong,” she went on.
Ms Chao ended her letter by signing it: “Patiently yours”.